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Shower sex games are excellent ways to either wake up a sexually dormant relationship or to prevent that from happening in the first place. However, not all couples are into bathroom sex games and may take a lot of coaxing to engage in them.

Furthermore, a lot of couples who do try shower sex games find that they’re quite a task to prepare and engage in them again. Hopefully, the previous articles in this series have taught you that sex games in the bathroom need not be a laborious task to prepare at all. And to help you further, here are more tips to ensure that you and your partner are always `sex game ready’ in the bathroom.

Shower Sex Games Anytime

First of all, don’t forget that it’s all about ambiance. It’s hard to think sexy if the bathroom is in complete disarray, right? As such, try to see to it that the shower is always clean and tidy. If not, just the taught of having to clean up before a sex game may prevent you from engaging in it in the first place.

Also, try to spruce up the bathroom to make it look romantic. Depending on the temperature where you live, consider putting a potted plant inside. Couples I work with swear by orchids in the bathroom so see if this is possible where you live too.

If you have kids, it’s understandable that there are few toys and cartoon-themed towels and robes there but try your best to keep them out of view when not in use. Trying to make love in the bathroom, while staring at a hanging Finding Nemo towel, or accidentally stepping on a rubber ducky is not really sexy. Instead, what you should display are dark, red robes or towels (or whatever color you guys find sexy).

Lighting is another serious matter. Try to have lights that you can dim for the `occasion’. If this is not possible, then simply make sure that scented candles are out and can be easily lighted. Again, if you have kids, you can still do this by simply putting the candles on top of something. It also doesn’t hurt putting a shelf especially for this. (For special moments, lighting the bathroom with dozens of candles usually does the trick for many couples!)

Another excellent tip is to ensure to leave `sexy hints’ everywhere. This ensures that thoughts of lovemaking are NEVER far behind. For instance, put tubes of lube or colored condoms where you and your partner can see them. Leave hot, sexy lingerie out hanging on the bathroom hook. All these will help stir desire and put thoughts of lovemaking in your and your partner’s head.

If you have a big bathroom, consider putting in some sexy furniture in there. For instance, there are adult furniture shops that sell waterproof single couches especially made for certain, er… sex positions. Consider putting one in one corner of your bathroom. This will help not only make you guys think of sex but lead you both to actually do it!

If you’re engaging in sex games involving hints, coupons, etc., hide them but not TOO well. You want them to be found, right? So feel free to use colored paper or be ingenious and put them condom boxes or colored tubes or even present them as a gift that your partner can find as she opens the bathroom medicine cabinet.

Once you’ve got the ambiance ready, always keep in mind that simply `jumping in’ hardly ever works (unless it’s a quickie you’re after!). A quick, short, yet sexy sensual massage always works to put couples in the mood and for this you need a small stash of massage oils ready in the bathroom. Just buy two small bottles of any scent you like and stash them anywhere in the bathroom you can easily reach them.

Bathroom sex games can be as mild or wild as you want them Just remember that `rules of engagement’ does not change wherever you participate in sex games. It’s still all balancing having an open mind and respecting each others’ comfort levels.

My last word of advice: just enjoy each other! A sex game is simply there to enhance and spice up your sexual relationship. On the other hand, don’t get addicted to sex games as well. It’s not meant to replace the actual sexual activity itself.



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