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How Much Do you Know About Lube?

November 28th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Suie Roberts asked:


Usage.

The primary use of lube is to lubricate an orifice before penetration, usually because the hole doesn’t lubricate itself, as in the case of anal sex where the anal passage lacks lubricating glands. The Vagina may also need lubricating assistance from a lubricating product. The vagina does come equipped to self lubricate, the vagina walls emanate a lubricating fluid when the woman becomes aroused. However, as you may expect from the more complicated sex, the natural juicing up process doesn’t always work! Some causes for this include-

Ageing – Particularly during and after menopause

An infection or cyst in the vagina

Hormonal Deficiency

Birth control pills

Anxiety

Moodiness

Tiredness

Guilt

Not wanting Sex

Not finding the other partner sexually attractive.

Whilst a lube can help with most of these problems, for the last one – a paper bag is the only solution!

Application of the lube may be incorporated into foreplay and it doesn’t really matter if it goes everywhere because its actually pleasurable to have the genitals massaged with lubricant. In fact, all over body massages are more enjoyable with lube – just rub the lube into your hands for a while to warm it before rubbing it into your partners skin.

So, which lube should you buy I hear you cry!

Obstetricians and gynaecologists recommend water based personal lubricants. Fancy extras such as flavour and smell or indeed fancy prices are to the individual’s taste.

Experimenting with an assortment of lubes is advisable to find one that suits your needs. To kick-start your exploratory quest for your perfect personal lube – nip over to erosuk.com and pick up a free sample!

Things to be aware of when using lubricants

Lubricants are not a form of contraceptive, even if it says it contains spermaside.

Petroleum jelly can be used as a lube – However it may coat the vaginal walls and mask the early symptoms of an infection.

Oil perishes rubber – Therefore an oil-based lube may cause your condom to split.

When practising anal sex whilst wearing a condom please note; lashings of lube is more important than extra thick condoms. The lube will ease movement so that the condom doesn’t split.

Another point on anal sex – it’s always best to wear a condom, but if your not and you intend to participate in vaginal and anal sex; always have vaginal sex first so that the vagina is not contaminated with bacteria from the anal passage. Out of action pussies are very frustrating!

Other uses for lubricants

Lip-Gloss – Just a dab makes your lips shine.

Slides tight rings off your fingers.

Stretch, polish and slide on shoes.

Free up a stubborn zip.

To move large furniture across wooden floors.

Polish plant leaves.

Hair Gel.

Cold compress.

Sliding in an earring.

Removing adhesive price tags from goods.

Moisturiser – for hands, elbows and knees.

Shaving gel for your legs.

Paint medium for you arty types.

Warming massage.

Lubricating wheels – esp. bike wheels.

Loosen up curtain track.

Shimmying into sexy neoprene or latex tube tops.

Aiding to tighten nuts and bolts.

Stops doors creaking.

Lube on the penis inside a condom increases the sensitivity for the condom wearer.



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How and When to Use Personal Lubricants

November 5th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


Personal lubricants are specialized lubricants that serve a variety of different purposes and are used in many different situations. There are basically three different times that one would employ a personal lubricant: for medical reasons, during sexual intercourse and with masturbation.

It may be surprising to hear, but some of the personal lubricants that are used today were originally developed solely for medical purposes. Products like KY Jelly, Astroglide or Probe personal lubricants were manufactured for use by physicians in the medical field. Some procedures that these are still used for are gynecological exams, digital rectal exams, and in the use of enema nozzles and rectal thermometers. Physicians today continue to use these products to put their patients in a more comfortable and relaxed state. Some of the procedures can be very tense and scary for people, so the addition of a personal lubricant helps to relax these areas so it is easier to enter.

Probably the most common reason that someone uses personal lubricants is for sexual intercourse. A lubricant should often time be the very first thing you do before having sexual intercourse with your partner. Personal lubricants help to increase pleasure or reduce pain during sexual activity. This comes in very handy during a variety of different sexual activities that include the penis, a dildo, vagina or anus. The most common type of sexual intercourse that almost always requires a lubricant is anal sex. Anal sex usually refers to the insertion of an erect penis in the anal cavity for sexual pleasure, but some people fail to realize that the anus and rectum areas are not self lubricating.

If you do not know what you are doing and choose not to use a personal lubricant, then this sexual activity can be very painful. Anal sex is a very sensitive activity because that area of the body is incredibly delicate. It is very sensitive to any type of dry friction and the skin in that area can be torn very easily. This is why it is almost mandatory to use some type of personal lubricant or else you run the risk of causing your body some serious discomfort. Also, if you do experience a tear in your anus or rectum, be sure to see a doctor immediately because it can cause an infection if you do not take care of it.

Personal lubricants are unparalleled for any type of sexual activity you may be thinking about. So, next time you are considering trying something new with your partner be sure to visit your local store to pick up some lubricant.



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Why is Sex Lube So Great?

October 23rd, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


Have you ever just been sitting around and wondered to yourself, what does make sex lube so great and why is everyone always talking about it? Well, this is a very common thing to ponder, but only for those who have never explored the wonderful world of sex lube. There are some basic things that everyone should know when considering experimenting with a personal lubricant, so it is important to take the time to educate yourself on the major points. Do not let anyone fool you; now all personal lubes are created equally and that is something that you must always keep in mind. This also means that you cannot judge a sex lube solely on its price. It is true that some of the best lubes are expensive, but that does not mean that all costly ones are going to be the best. So, if you are smart about shopping for it you can end up saving a lot of money in the end.

Another super important part of personal lubricants are the ingredients listed on the back of the bottle. You should be aware of what each ingredient does and how it affects you and your body. Learning more about the ingredients will give you the ability to know which ones you should use and which ones you should stray away from. There are many popular water based lubes that have glycerin in them; this can promote yeast growth and even lead to infections. People assume that because it is water based it is good, but this is a perfect example of when that is simply not true. Astroglide is one of the few popular brands that has come out with a glycerin and paraben free formula that works just as well as the original and without the yeast promoting characteristics.

There are also many lubricants on the market today that have an oil base to them; these too should be avoided if at all possible. The biggest reason that you should avoid the oil based sex lube is because it is not compatible with latex products. Anything from condoms to latex gloves are 100% incompatible with oil based lubes. This means that if you use this type of lube, but are also using a condom for protection, the condom will be rendered ineffective because the latex will be destroyed. Knowing the differences between sex lubes is the most important part, but after that comes all the fun. Sex lube is full of possibilities and is guaranteed to increase the fun for you and your partner in the bedroom.



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Top Ten Reasons to Love Personal Lubricants

August 23rd, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


The idea of using personal lubricants is an old one. Back in the late 1700s, the invention of personal lubricants to be used during anal sex came along. Before this revolutionary lube came along, men used lard to ease the task. Ever since the personal lubricants came along more than 200 years ago, people continually strive to advance and improve the lube. Why are so much time and effort being devoted to personal lubricants? Because people love them, and they love what they do for us. Heres why:

#10: Anything that prevents pain and chafing is a good thing! Thankfully, personal lubricants now do a good job keeping pain and chafing at bay, although with most kinds it must be replenished and reapplied frequently.

#9: Too much of a good thing is bad. Many sexual acts that should be done with lubricant are subject to an overabundance of rubbing, pulling, and squeezing. All of these things are good things in sex, but sometimes without lube the pulling is too much.

#8: Personal Lubricants contribute to the overall premise that the wetter, the better when it comes to sex. Nuff said!

#7: Warmth feels SO good. The warming lubricants quite possibly could be the best stuff on Earth for couples. It adds a unique touch to erotic play that makes people want to be touched more and more.

#6: Everything is better when it tastes good. The flavored lube comes in different flavors, adding a delicious touch to oral sex that will improve your experiences overall.

#5: Personal lubricants are for more than sex. Even though people usually think of personal lube as a sexual aid, it is also used for gynecological examinations, rectal exams, and other medical procedures that would be more uncomfortable than they already are without it.

#4: Enjoyment you can provide alone with help. Making masturbation more enjoyable is one of the most popular reasons to use lubricant.

#3: Added help preventing pregnancy. Even though spermicides can sometimes irritate the vagina, there are lubricants that contain these chemicals to help kill sperm while you use it.

#2: Vasodilators can make sex a big deal. Vasodilators can be found in some personal lubricants, which increase blood flow to the area that it is applied to, resulting in bigger erections and fuller clitorises.

#1: Personal Lubricants always seem to have the most amusing commercials on television. That is just a freebie that comes along with the good stuff we love to call lube.



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The Right Lube for the Job

August 18th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Justina Mathews asked:


There is a lot of information out there about personal lubricants. And there are a lot of lubricants. Finding the lubricant that is best for you can take your whole life to find. Thank god the research is fun. I personally have five bottles of lubricant because I believe I have five kinds of sex. So I am going to go through my slick sex arsenal and show you my way of thinking.

The Daily Grind. For my day to day sexual activities, I have a nice, hoohah friendly, water-based lubricant. I hear the Hustler Sensitive Formula is discontinued, so I have stocked up.[1] However, when it is finally gone, I am seriously sticking to the glycerin-free for all my lubrication. There is no real proof that glycerin causes yeast infections, but why risk it?

The BJ Lube. I love flavored lubricants. They are great for oral sex and they work great for regular sex. And with many of the flavored lubricants, the taste lingers after sex (and wash out during the post-sex shower). Post-sex oral sex happen. And when they do, that lingering cherry flavor can really add to the experience.

Although TLC just came out with a lubricant that tastes like a can of Mountain Dew (it is called Fizz and it is mighty tasty), I am loyal to my Wet sample packets. They are easy to use and taste fruity. I suggest avoiding flavored lubes with sugar as it does do a number on the private area pH.

The Special Occasion. Silicone lube is expensive and does not wash off as easily as the water-based lubes. However, on special occasions, it is the only way to go. I keep a bottle of this type of lube by my jacuzzi tub because silicone lubricant is best for underwater fun. It also comes out for those weekends in bed with a man (or woman with a lot of harness toys). When I ran a marathon, I had a fanny pak of water, protein, and first aid. The same preparation should apply to marathon sex. Hydration, lubrication, bruise balm! Silicone is the slickest and longest lasting by nature of not being water-soluble. [2]

The eco-date. Sometimes I use lubricant to impress my partner. I know it is so shallow and breaks all dating etiquette codes. But when I am dating someone with a veggie car (and it happens a lot in California), I like to show off my world-saving skills, too. Some lubes, like Sylk, is the most “chemical-free” lubricant I have seen on the market a no parabens, no petro-chemicals, uses grapefruit seed extract and kiwivine. Now, I am a green person. I hug a tree on numerous occasions. I find treehuggers terribly sexy. For them, I have the green-lube. If you are not willing to order from Australia, I suggest O’ My Natural lubricant. Very nice stuff.

Up the back area. Never ever, ever be caught without lubricant when doing anal. Just does not do it. Please. Never. And there are lubricants just for the butt. So you have no excuse. Astroglide makes shooters. Now, how is that for genius product development? They are these little pre-filled tubes you just, well, shoot. Easy! Anal lubricants can come with desensitizers, too, so if you are looking for an easier entry, shop around for mild desensitizers in your anal lubricant.

A little chemistry lesson from someone who flunked it in high school: While the ingredient list on my favorite defunct lube says water as its main ingredient, I assume it is thus considered water-based. However, the second ingredient is dimethicone, which is a silicone. Generally, if you see a a cone at the end of an ingredient, it is a silicone. However, since the main ingredient (base) is water, it is water based. I want to reiterate the disclaimer that I flunked chemistry in high school. I might be wrong. I do know a chemist. We tend to talk about gummy bears. I will confirm that with him when I see him again.

Scared of the silicone? Do not be. While it may seem a little too chemical based for al-natural fans, take a look in your bathroom and you’ll find silicones all over, in your hair care and in your face cosmetics. Dimethicone moisturizes which is why you see moisturizing on the ID Millenium bottle. (I talked to the chemist!)



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Advice for Couples New to Anal Sex

July 9th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Jennifer Amato asked:


Anal sex for many couples is a big step in their relationship. It shows a sign of love and above all, trust. The problem for many couples is how to make anal sex more comfortable for both of you. Many couples are worry that anal sex may be painful. However, anal sex can be quite pleasurable for both partners. The muscles and nerves around the anus are extremely sensitive which can result in a major orgasmic experience. If you and your partner are planning to experiment with anal sex, here are a few tips on making your experience a good one.

Breath, don’t forget to breath, relax put on some smooth romantic music, music that will make you, just relax. Light some candles, set the mood. It also wouldn’t help to have a nice massage in the beginning to get the juices flowing.

The use of a Personal Lubricant is very important when engaging in anal sex (You can even try a lube with Benzocaine that will numb the area and make it less painful). This way there is no skin on skin rubbing. This could cause rashes, abscesses or worse even PAIN, to which you may never try this again. Here are some personal lubricants that we recommend that are specifically for anal sex. The lubricants are thicker than average for more safer and comfortable anal sex.

AnalEse – Anal lubricant that contains Benzocaine to reduce the initial discomfort of insertion while its lubricating properties allow ease of penetration.

AstroGlide Shooters Anal Lube – Each package contains six individually wrapped lube applicators that can be inserted where you want before you play. Allows for no mess application. This lube is a water-based anal lubricant that is thick enough and long lasting for a pleasurable anal sex experience.

China Anal Balm – This lubricating cream contains the maximum amount allowed of Benzocaine which takes the sting out of anal sex. This is the strongest over the counter formula of Benzocaine. The numbing effect lasts between 10-20 minutes. Cherry scented flavored and oil free for ease of removal.

Start out slow. Be gentle. Do not force anything. Let it come naturally. Try using a finger at first then a small anal vibrator or anal plug to start with before having anal intercourse with your partner. Take your time be gentle, make this comfortable for you and your partner. Take it in steps, with each session you will gradually become more comfortable and be able to enjoy yourself with your partner.

Last and most important “COMMUNICATE” Talk to your partner. If it doesn’t feel good try it another way. If you need to slow down say slow down. Communication is the key. By following these steps you and your partner will be able to relax, breath, lube, and communicate to the point of ” No accidents.”



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Letting Loose With Lube

June 29th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


There are three main types of lube out there today, and each one has many pros and some cons. Lube can enhance sexual pleasure for both parties involved in many ways. The main purpose of a personal lubricant is to reduce discomfort and pain by reducing friction. You can have a lot of fun with different sexual lubes, because some have a warming effect when they come in contact with skin, others have a numbing effect to make erections and sex last longer, some increase blood flow to the genitals when used, causing amplified sensations, and there are some lubricants that come in a variety of delicious, edible flavors. There are even a few brands that make lube that feels icy cool on contact.

While there are many benefits to using a personal lubricant when natural lube is low or not available (like for anal sex), there are some things that you should keep in mind when choosing one. First of all, you need to decide what kind of sexual activity you will be doing: masturbating, anal sex, vaginal penetration, or all of the above. Oil based lube is not recommended any time that sex toys, novelties, or birth control devices such as diaphragms and condoms are being used. Water based lubricants are safe to use with toys and birth control, but often dry out fairly quickly, so frequent applications are common, and recommended. Silicone based personal lubricants last longer than the water based ones, but can be hard to wash off and could cause damage to silicone toys.

Water based personal Lube that is flavored is for external use only, for example, for use while a woman is giving oral sex. Flavored lube is not recommended for use inside the vagina or the rectum, because the glycerin in them can cause infections, and the sugar will throw the delicately balanced ph off in the vagina. Lubricants that have a warming sensation are generally some of the most popular ones that people really enjoy. Another super popular type of lube is the lube that when in contact with skin, it relaxes the nerves at the area, increasing blood flow to the genitals. With more blood flowing, those genitals increase in size and sensitivity, totally upping your sexual experience and stamina.

For the most part, silicone based personal lubricant is recommended and almost required to have a positive anal sex experience. Silicone lube is generally condom friendly, and sex using toys like vibrators and dildos with silicone lube is not a problem. These lubes are thick and will not dry up quickly. Men who want a good lube for masturbating will generally like the oil based ones because they are smoothly slick, but again, do NOT use the oil lubes for vaginal penetration or with condoms or toys. For vaginal penetration, it becomes a matter of personal preference as to which lubricant feels the best (provided, remember, that it is not flavored).

If you are prone to yeast infections to begin with, look for the glycerin free lubricants. Always read labels carefully before you buy lube. Make sure that there is nothing used in the lube that you are or may be allergic to. If you and your partner are trying to get pregnant, there is some evidence that the chemicals used in all kinds of lubes are damaging to sperm, so take that into consideration if you need to.

Even though there is a ton of things concerning lube to watch out for, keep in mind that once you get familiar with the different types, you can experiment more freely and be on your way to new erotic sensations thanks to lube.



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