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The Difference Between Oil, Water and Silicone Based Vaginal Lubricants

December 8th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
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When it comes to vaginal lubricants, there are quite a wide variety of choices available to consumers. For the purposes of this article, we will not be taking a look at any kind of everyday vaginal lubricants (which combat against uncomfortable dryness that can sometimes occur, particularly in menopausal women). Instead, we will be looking at vaginal lubricants intended for use during sex.

There are three basic types of sexual vaginal lubricants. There are oil based, water based and silicone based vaginal lubricants, each with its own set of unique advantages and drawbacks. First, we will take a look at oil based vaginal lubricants.

Lubes with an oil base should pretty much be avoided at all costs. For those who use diaphragms, cervical caps or condoms on a regular basis, oil based vaginal lubricants pose a pretty serious threat. The oil in them can break down latex, which means that there is an increased risk of condom breakage and the aforementioned birth control forms can be seriously affected, even rendered useless.

Additionally, oil based vaginal lubricants can leave a thin film of grease on the skin, which can be irritating to a lot of people. This leads to small cuts on the genitals, which then get infested with bacteria. To be sure, this is not a pretty picture to think about, so you probably just want to stay away from all vaginal lubricants with an oil base.

Water based vaginal lubricants, on the other hand, are extremely safe and do not have any funky reactions to latex. If anything, they reduce the risk of condom breakage by cutting back on some of the tear inducing friction. Water based vaginal lubricants are available in gel or jelly form and are extremely affordable. However, after prolonged use, they tend to dry out and become a little gummy. To rejuvenate gummy lube, all you have to do is sprinkle a little water on the area and it will be as good as when you first put it on.

Silicone based vaginal lubricants are the final type, and are arguably the best available. Unlike water based vaginal lubricants, it is not easily absorbed by the skin and will not dry out during use. Plus, they are safe to use with condoms and all sorts of birth control. The only potential drawback that they have is staining, so be careful with your nice sheets.



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Sex Lubes for Anal Sex

November 9th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
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Sex lubes are the most popular enhancers for sexual arousal and stimulation. Anyone who has ever tried inserting anything into the anus knows well that you have got to have sex lube to make it comfortable. Since the anus and rectum cannot lubricate themselves, sex lubes are critical to making anal sex more pleasurable. Without sex lubes, things could start tearing and chafing, which is painful and inviting to an infection.

There are many different kinds of sex lubes to experiment with. Water based lube is the safest lube for use in anal sex. It is very natural because of the water, and is also popular since many people find it to be non irritating. Another bonus for water based sex lubes is that there are no chemicals to break down latex, which is good news for condom wearers. One word of caution, though, about the water based lubes, is that some women find that water based lubes made with glycerin or sugar can cause a yeast infection, especially if they are susceptible to the infections to begin with. Unfortunately, it is usually the flavored sex lubes that contain the sugar and glycerin, so be careful it is the flavored lubes that are NOT for use in the vagina or in the anus, unless they are sugar free. One minor downfall of water based sex lubes is that they can dry out more quickly than lubricants that are not water based, but keeping the bottle of lube nearby or using spit or another lube for anal sex can help keep the area that is being worked nice and moist.

Oil based sex lubes are not recommended for use with condoms, diaphragms, and sex toys. Oil based lubricants can break down latex and some plastics, so stay away from oil based lubes if you are using these birth control methods or even if you are not sure if it would be safe or not. The sex lubes could also potentially ruin your latex and rubber toys, so unless you are using your hand only to masturbate, dont use it. Oil lubes are also frowned upon because the oil can coat the rectum or vagina and lead to a bacterial infection at the area.

Silicone based sex lubes are a newer kind of lube. They are safe to use with condoms and latex products, so your sex toys will stay safe when used with the silicone anal lube, for the most part. Use caution, though, if you have toys that are made of silicone. The lube could cause breakdown damage to your special toys. Silicone based sex lubes also last longer than water based lubes, not drying out nearly as quickly. However, the lube can be hard to wash off, and can still irritate a womans vagina, skin, and anus if it is left there for too long.

Almost any drug store or retail owner usually carries different types of sex lubes. Feel free to experiment with the different kinds of lube available to find which one for which activity is best. It is a good idea, too, to test the sex lube on your skin to test for an allergic reaction to it or oversensitivity. So keeping these things in mind, when you are ready to venture into the world of sex lubes, you will have a good idea on deciding which one to try first.



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Use Different Sex Lubricants for Different Sexual Acts

September 29th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
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The topic of sex lubricants has become a complicated topic nowadays. There are tips and pointers and how to articles smeared all over the internet, and the information on what lubricant is safe to use when can seem overwhelming and confusing. There are four categories of sexual acts (that will be covered here) and four different sex lubricants to get the job done right.

Starting with men needing some slick help when masturbating, the best lubrication to use would be the oil based lubricants. They last longer than water based lube, and are easier to wash off than silicone based lube. Oil based lubricants are not good, however, for sexual intercourse involving condoms or sex toys. The oils will dissolve both, as well as most other kinds of birth control.

Next we come to oral sex. When the woman is the one pleasing and teasing, flavored sex lubricants are the only way to go. The variety of flavors is bountiful. Be careful, though. Keep in mind that the flavored ones are manufactured with glycerin and sugar. The sugar in the lube, if it gets in the vagina, wreaks havoc with the ph, and more than likely will cause infections. The glycerin can do the same thing, so remember that the flavored sex lubricants are for external use only.

Speaking of the vagina, the best lubricants for vaginal penetration are usually the silicone based ones. They are thicker than the water based lubes, so they last longer before drying up. A word of warning does come with silicone based lubes, however. The silicone will damage any silicone toys you may have, so if you are going to be using adult novelties made of silicone, stay away from silicone based lubricant.

The last area to be covered is anal sex. Since the anus and rectum do not produce their own natural lubrication, having it supplied to perform anal sex is an absolute must. If you have ever tried having anal sex without lubricant, you know that it is tight, it hurts, and is extremely uncomfortable. Remember not to use the external use only flavored lubes. Water soluble lubricant is ok, just keep the bottle nearby, because although water based lube is cheaper than silicone based ones, it is because of the water that it dries up fairly quickly, so frequent reapplying is required.

So how do you know which ones are oil based, water based, and silicone based? Look at the ingredients on the back. The very first ingredient will tell you which category it falls under. If the first ingredient is water and the second is anything ending in cone, yes, there is silicone in it, but since the first ingredient is water, it is a water based lube.

Keeping these rules and tips in mind when shopping for the lubricant, you will soon discover that if finances allow, the best choice for sex lubricants is a wide variety of them.



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The Slick Facts about Personal Lubes

September 17th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
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Choosing a personal lube from all of the personal lubes on a store shelf can be confusing. Finding which of the personal lubes is best for you and your partner requires some detective work. The main purpose of personal lubes is to reduce friction, reducing discomfort and pain. Bonus benefits of some personal lubes are that some have a warming effect when they come in contact with the skin, and there are some lubricants that are made with glycerin and sugar, giving them various delicious flavors. Some personal lubes even have a cooling effect when it contacts the skin.

There are three main types of personal lubes, and each of the three has different qualities and properties. Oil based lube is not recommended any time that sex toys, novelties, or diaphragms and condoms are being used. The oil will break down latex and rubber. Oil lubes are great, on the other hand, for men who need personal lubes for masturbating. Water based lubricants are safe to use with toys and birth control, but often dry out fairly quickly, so frequent applications are common, and recommended. They are also close to natural, and are generally safe for sensitive skin too. Silicone based personal lubes last longer than the water based ones, but can be hard to wash off and could cause damage to silicone toys. Many people do like the silicone lubes because of their silky feel. Some companies manufacture combination lubricants, a mix of water and silicone.

Personal Lubes that are flavored are not for use in the vagina or rectum; they should be used for external use only, like for oral sex. Flavored lube is not recommended for use inside the vagina or the rectum because the glycerin in them can cause infections. Lubricants that have a warming sensation are generally some of the most popular ones that people really enjoy. The jury is still out on the popularity of personal lubes that cause a cooling, menthol ish effect!

Silicone based personal lubes are recommended for anal sex and sex using toys like vibrators and dildos. These lubes are thicker and will stay on longer than the other two types of lubes. Men who are looking for a lube for masturbating will generally like the oil based ones because they generally feel very smooth, but again, do NOT use the oil lubes for vaginal penetration or with condoms or toys. For vaginal intercourse, it becomes a matter of personal preference as to which lubricant feels the best. If you are prone to yeast infections to begin with, look for the glycerin free lubricants. Always read labels carefully when you are shopping for personal lubes. Make sure that there is nothing used in the lube that you are or may be allergic to. If you and your partner are trying to get pregnant, there is some evidence that the chemicals in personal lubes are damaging to sperm, so take that into consideration if you need to.



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first time sex?

September 4th, 2009 by Admin | 7 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
jakejoh219 asked:


i am being told to use lube the first time i have sex so that my girlfriend will feel less pain

especially when it comes to breaking the hymen…

Now she said its fine to use silicone based because we plan on showering after….
but like,

which is better for breaking the hymen? i would think water-based because it would be more gel like, and in a higher quantity…

Tell me what you think.

Thanks!
protection & birth control is gonna be used.

we are both 18

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How do you feel about sex toys being sold to adults only but condoms and birth control being sold to minors?

February 2nd, 2009 by Admin | 16 Comments | Filed in Sex Toys General FAQ
Johnny S. asked:


Is there any reason to keep sex toys from underaged kids? They are not going to contract a disease or an unplaned pregency.

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How do you feel about sex toys being sold to adults only but condoms and birth control being sold to minors?

February 1st, 2009 by Admin | 16 Comments | Filed in Sex Toys General FAQ
Johnny S. asked:


Is there any reason to keep sex toys from underaged kids? They are not going to contract a disease or an unplaned pregency.

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