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My boyfriends penis is so big and I’m not sure if we’ll ever be able to have anal sex.Please help

November 25th, 2009 by Admin | 8 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
blueyes_wright83 asked:


Me and my boyfriend have played around with anal sex. Using few fingers at first lots of lube and going really slow. Nothing seems to work. Not to mention his penis is huge…it touches his belly button and my thumb and index finger can’t touch when i wrap them around it. Is he just to big and i should give it up or is there something else out there that we haven’t tried …..Needing help.

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Anal sex any advise on getting it in?

November 18th, 2009 by Admin | 11 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Jess C asked:


My husband and i have tried it several times however he cant fit, get the picture i dont need to go into the details, each time he wore a condoma nd had large amounts of lube on. I dont want to streatch myself at all so anyone have a serious solution or some special type of lube because weve tried alot.

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Good lubricant for anal sex/play?

November 11th, 2009 by Admin | 3 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
boston_sox asked:


My girlfriend and I want to change the lube we use for anal play and are looking for suggestions for a good brand. We’ve been using Eros, but she doesn’t like it because it is silicone based and very difficult to wash out when we’re finished playing.

What lubes have you had success with? I’m not a fan of KY for anal play, it dries out too quickly. No Anal Ease or other sensation dulling lubricants please, they are not very safe products. If something is hurting there, it means there’s something wrong.
I know where to look for lube, I’m looking for brand suggestions please :)

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can i use butter or veggie oil for anal sex lubricant?

November 10th, 2009 by Admin | 7 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
joy asked:


i know food in the vagina is asking for bateria infections. what about the anus. can i use butter or shortning or veggie oil for lube before anal loving?

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What Is Anal Spray?

November 8th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


Many people who like to engage in anal sex (or anal play of any kind, for that matter), can get a great amount of use from anal spray. Still, not many people know what an anal spray is, what it does or how it can benefit them, so it is not commonly found in the nightstand drawers of anal fetishists.

Basically, there are two different types of anal sprays: anal sprays that are meant as a lubricant, and anal sprays that are meant to be used as a topical numbing agent, helping to ease the pain of anal intercourse. To start, we will address anal sprays that are meant to numb the area. Contrary to how it may sound, numbing anal sprays do not totally eliminate the pleasurable feeling associated with anal play. Instead, they just numb the outside of the sphincter, so the act of entry into the anus does not feel as uncomfortable as it otherwise would.

Numbing anal sprays are great for those who are apprehensive about the pain involved with anal play, and it can help introduce the act to beginners without permanently turning them off from the act. Numbing anal sprays can be difficult to find if you do not know where to look, however. You can always find them at online retailers, but you are unlikely to see them sitting on the shelves of your local corner or drug store. Another place that you can pretty much always find anal sprays are at adult stores.

The other kind of anal sprays are meant to be used as lubricants. Unlike the other kind of anal sprays, they do not have any numbing agents in them. Unlike thick jellies and creams, anal spray lubricants are light and unlikely to make as much of a mess as the other kinds of lubes on the market today. Another benefit of using anal sprays is that you can get just the right amount of lubricant in just the right place.

Anal sprays usually have a water or silicone base, although it is possible to find anal sprays that have an oil base if you look hard enough. Anal sprays with an oil base tend to stain sheets, however. Additionally, these types of anal sprays are not safe for use with condoms, as it makes them more likely to tear during action. Silicone and water based anal sprays are okay to use with condoms.



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Does anal sex cause any health risks?

November 2nd, 2009 by Admin | 6 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Sparkles asked:


My bf and I enjoy anal sex alot and we are each other’s first so there are no worries about STD’s and such. HOwever, are there any harms to the body from having too much anal sex? Also, in the heat of the moment we usually use lotion to lube instead of usual lubricants since lotion is easier to access, is lotion bad for anal sex or the body?

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How safe is anal sex? Is it possible to get pregnant? What would happen if it happen in the shower?

October 26th, 2009 by Admin | 9 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
yomamachank asked:


What to use? protection and lube?

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Should i use a condom for anal?

October 13th, 2009 by Admin | 2 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Masterbateandhooks asked:


is the lube on the condom itself safe and enough for anal sex or masturbation?

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Sex Lube for Anal Foreplay and Masturbation

September 29th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


There is always a lot of buzz in sex shops and adult toy stores about anal sex lube. It is almost like a mysterious taboo that everyone wants to know about, but the topic is still hush hush by society standards. The truth about anal sex lube is that it is absolutely necessary to perform any kind of anal stimulation, which, lets face it, many people love. Many people are under the impression that anal sex is uncomfortable, painful, and just..poopy. The only reason that anal sex or masturbation is ever painful is when a good personal lubricant is not being used, and rule number one says that lube must always be used.

The reason that sex lube is so critical to use with any anal stimulation is that the rectum and anus are not self lubricating areas of the body. There are times when the anus can feel like it is lubricated and moist, but dont be fooled. The closest that the anus gets to being lubricated is nothing more than a little bit of sweat from the area and a smaller bit of mucous that has mixed up a little bit there. There are many times, in fact, when this actually causes irritation, and a good sex lube can help relieve that.

A good sex lube is probably more important to sex than is realized. Penetration into either the vagina or the anus is much easier, more comfortable, and less tense than without. Without using sex lube for anal penetration, the anus and rectum tissues could become irritated, swollen, and painful. Whats worse is that they can also rip and tear, and not only is that obviously uncomfortable, but that opens your body up wide to the possibility of infection setting in. Sex lube can keep you from getting sick!

Every persons choice for a favorite sex lube is different, and is based on many different things. Many people consider a water based sex lube to be the best and safest. They are compatible with condoms and sex toys. The water based sex lube can be as close to natural as you can get a synthetic lube to be, and many of them are great for sensitive skinned people.

A downside to using water based sex lube is that it dries out fairly quickly, so you have to reapply water based sex lube fairly frequently. Fortunately, though, the water based sex lube is cheaper than the other lubricants, such as silicone based ones and oil based ones, so the cost evens out that way. Oil based sex lube should be avoided all together, unless you are a male masturbating. Silicone sex lube is probably almost as popular as the water kind, but these are a little more expensive. On the flip side, though, you dont have to use as much silicone lube as the water lube, because it is very slow to dry out. Silicone is a popular sex lube because of its silky smooth texture and long lasting ability.



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When two straight men have anal sex why does it hurt so much even with lubrication, and a condom?

September 22nd, 2009 by Admin | 12 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Joseph T asked:


When I had anal sex with one of my buddies him and his other friends dared me to. so I applied lubrictation and had my college wear a condom with lube on top, and when he inserted himself in me it hurt so fucking bad I couldn’t believe how gay guys manage.

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What is this fluid that comes out of my girlfriends ass after anal sex?

September 17th, 2009 by Admin | 1 Comment | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Buttugly M asked:


We are both clean and we dint use a condom no lube either; Could we get STDS from it ?
and i dint cum

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Anal Lubricants Make Good Sex Great

August 19th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Phoenix Delray asked:


Using anal lubricants during anal play, anal masturbation, and anal sex is not only recommended, it is strongly suggested! The anal lubricants today come in many different textures, consistencies, and varieties. There are so many different types of anal lube, in fact, that it can sometimes be very difficult knowing which lubricants are right for which sexual activity. Here is a quick breakdown of the nitty gritty of anal lubricants.

There are many types of anal lubricants that you may want to experiment with and have fun with. Some of them are safe with all anal sex, some are safe with only certain kinds of sex toys, and some anal lubricants you should stay away from altogether.

Water based lube is the most common and safest of the anal lubricants. It is very natural because of the water, and is also popular since many people find it to be non irritating. Another bonus for water based sex lubes is that there are no chemicals to break down latex, which is good news for condom wearers. One word of caution, though, about the water based lubes, is that some people find that water based lubes made with glycerin or sugar can cause an infection. Unfortunately, it is usually the flavored sex lubes that contain the sugar and glycerin, so be careful it is the flavored lubes that are NOT for use in the anus, unless they are sugar free.

Oil based personal lubes are not recommended for use with condoms, diaphragms, and sex toys. Oil based lubricants can break down latex and some plastics, so stay away from oil based lubes if you are using these birth control methods or even if you are not sure if it would be safe or not. Oil based lubricants should be avoided all together for anal sex, so unless you are using your hand only to masturbate, dont use it. Oil lubes are also frowned upon because the oil can coat the rectum and lead to a bacterial infection at the area.

Silicone based anal lubricants are a newer kind of lube. They are safe to use with condoms and latex products, so your sex toys will stay safe when used with the silicone anal lube, for the most part. Use caution, though, if you have toys that are made of silicone. The lube could cause breakdown damage to your special toys. Silicone based ones also last longer than water based lubes, not drying out nearly as quickly. However, the lube can be hard to wash off, and can still irritate the anus if it is left there for too long.

Many drug stores and retail stores carry anal lubricants. Feel free to experiment with the different kinds of lube available to find which one for which activity is best. It is a good idea, too, to test the anal lubricant on your skin to test for an allergic reaction to it or oversensitivity.



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How do I stop anal sex from hurting?

August 16th, 2009 by Admin | 7 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
JF asked:


We’ve tried it before (not for long though) but it really hurt so I’ve been scared and put off from trying it again.

Are there any tips to stop it from hurting? (When we did it last time, we did use loads of lube).

So yes, basically, how can I stop it from hurting (and maybe then enjoy it?)

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Pre-tattoo ‘lube’.does it ease the pain?

August 3rd, 2009 by Admin | 6 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Sammi V asked:


I heard that using ‘anal lube’ [or something such as] would help ease the pain of a tattoo…is that true? Has anyone tried it? It supposadly eases the pain by numbing the skin…i was just wondering if it worked. Im getting a coverup on my wrist that will take much longer than the current tattoo there did, and am a bit worried about the pain – So i wanted to know if anyone had tried this or heard anything about it…Thanks =]
The reason i specifically named ‘anal lube’ was because there is a lube sold in sex stores that you put on your [im sure you can guess] to ease the pain of anal sex…so it seems as though it would numb the pain of it and i had a few people tell me that its one way to get rid of the pain of tattoo.
The reason i specifically named ‘anal lube’ was because there is a lube sold in sex stores that you put on your [im sure you can guess] to ease the pain of anal sex…so it seems as though it would numb the pain of it and i had a few people tell me that its one way to get rid of the pain of tattoo.
Oops, posted that twice…sorry

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anal sex question?

July 15th, 2009 by Admin | 7 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Kal asked:


my girlfriend and i want to have anal sex and i want to know if baby oil is a safe lube for anal penetration

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How can anal sex be easier, do muscle relaxers help?

July 10th, 2009 by Admin | 2 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
brianahodge67 asked:


I actually WANT to do this, but i have had failed attempts several times. Im not sure what to do. Lube doesnt help that much i dont guess. i was thinking about muscle relaxers, is that a bad idea o what? Any ideas??

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Lubricant burns me during anal sex?

June 23rd, 2009 by Admin | 3 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Watchmen7 asked:


Me and my boyfriend have been starting to have anal sex. The only problem is, the lubricant that we’ve tried to use burns my anus. It’s too uncomfortable, and I have to give up. The lube we have is is called “ID Glide Personal Lubricant.” It is a water-based, water-soluble, petroleum free lubricant.

If it matters, the ingredients are as follows: purified water, glycerin, propylene glycol, cellulose polymer, polyethylene oxide, sodium benzoate, methyl paraben, carbomer 981, tetrahydroxypropul ethylenediamine, diazolidynl urea, EDTA.

I didn’t know if any of those ingredients could be causing this reaction to occur or if anybody knows of a good anal lube to use that will NOT burn me.

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Is there health risks to anal sex?

June 22nd, 2009 by Admin | 6 Comments | Filed in Lubes / Lubricants FAQ
Tiffany B asked:


My boyfriend loves to do it there sometimes and we always use lots of lube but my friend says it can ruin the part that holds the poop in?

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April 5th, 2009 by Admin | No Comments | Filed in Anal Toys FAQ
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