Painful sex?
November 12th, 2009 by Admin | Filed under Lubes / Lubricants FAQ.
BabyThespy asked:
What can I do to stop sex from hurting? And what is causing it? Do I just have a really tight vagina?
What can I do to stop sex from hurting? And what is causing it? Do I just have a really tight vagina?
When I have sex, it is very painful down there (even with a silicone based lube). Sometimes it causes severe abdominal pain as well (but not always). It is to the point that I am afraid to have sex and have a difficult time getting aroused. It is causing a problem in my marriage and I don’t know what to do?
P.S. I posted a message asking the same thing in the marraige and divorce section. And please, no rude responses.
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See a doctor.
I’d go see a doctor about it.
Well, has sex always hurted, or did it just start hurting?
i would see a ob-gyn if i was u…
umm just see a doctor idk wht to tell you
Maybe you aren’t having it enough? Try having sex more often to stretch out your vagina. If that doesn’t work see a doctor about it.
You really should be discussing this with your OB/GYN for options and also to check you out and make sure there isn’t an underlying issue.
Take care…
I’ve heard of a condition similar like this that when some women have sex it is very painful. Go to a Gynecologist and explain ur problem to the doctor cuz u might have that condition and if so I think they do have a medicine for that condition.
There’s a couple of things you may want to check out with a physician (gyno). First, there is a syndrome where for whatever reason, some women’s muscles tense up to the point where sex is very painful and even unbearable–a doctor can tell you more about that. And second, it’s possible that you may have an undetected STD that is causing the pain. Either way–I’d ask an experienced doctor and not us weirdos on the internet. Good luck–I’m sure there’s something that can make it better.
See a dr. yes but some of the reasons could be yes, tighter vaginal area….or perhaps an std or another medical problem. U might just try to relax a littlem more during sex altogether, that could be a big part of it…
my girl has the same problem.
use lubricant its because your not aroused enough b4 he is entering into you. try a massage, more foreplay and relax.
The Causes of Pain During Intercourse Include:
Tipped or retroverted uterus – Some women with a tipped uterus experience pain during intercourse. This happens when the penis hits the cervix or uterus during sex. This condition is known as collision dyspareunia.
Endometriosis – The tissue lining the uterus – the endometrium – may grow outside the uterus causing deep pain during sex.
Infection – Bacterial or yeast infections are among the most common causes of pain during intercourse.
Lack of estrogen – During menopause, the vaginal walls thin and the amount of vaginal lubrication decreases.
Vulvodynia – In this condition, the vulva is hypersensitive and extremely tender on touch.
Drug side effects – Common drugs including those for allergy, high blood pressure or depression may affect the amount of vaginal lubrication, as well as the level of sexual arousal and desire.
Physical problems – Scar tissue from abdominal surgery or from delivering a baby can distort the anatomy and cause significant pain during intercourse. A cyst on an ovary can also cause pain.
Pelvic floor myalgia – Pelvic floor muscle spasms are involuntary muscle spasms and can result in difficult and uncomfortable sex.
Emotional issues – Sometimes, past issues such as sexual abuse or communication problems in a relationship can translate into sexual difficulties.
I have the same problem with the abdominal pain, I have been telling my doctors for years and they dont seem to even care, but I believe mine is from a surgery I had when I was twelve. If your doctor doesnt help you, demand to see a specialist.
there was an article today on foxnews.com about this
you need to go to the doctor yesterday
i have the same problem….and lube really doesn’t help me as well.everything started to get better with a simple position change and then sex and my cramping started to get better.and now it is not a problem as long as we dont go far from that position.the position for me is …me on bottom,knees together and off to my left side.and him…infront of me straight on with hims legs slightly apart.i put a pillow under my bottom so that i am more in line with his penis.try some new positions with your knees together…i hope this helps.
As a sex expert I would say this is a serious problem! #1 question would be if this just started or has it always been a problem? If it just started it might have to do with you your natural inner body lubrication. It seems like your husband penis is forcing penetration which not a wise and healthy decision. If this has been a problem from the start it might be due to your vaginal wall! It might be to closed up inside which creates the abdominal pain…. I hate recommending this but this might be suited for this problem to go see a gynecologist… I pap smear would also be a wise choice.
you should probably see a dr, not unless your husband is really big and your still tight.
but i would see a dr cus i just lost my virginity a month ago and it didnt hurt.
just see a dr.
and you should be fine.
good luck
If you’re experiencing pain during or after sex there may be several factors that are contributing to the pain you feel. For women there are a number of physical conditions that may make sex hurt, including:
* Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
* Endometriosis
* Ovarian cysts
* Interstitial cystitis
* Vaginismus
* Vulvodynia
* Some sexually transmitted diseases
* Urinary infections
* Vaginal dryness
* Physical injury and chronic pain
I would recommend that if you experience pain during or after sex that you consult with your doctor/gynaecologist for further evaluation and to rule out any serious causes.
Good luck