My boyfriends penis is so big and I’m not sure if we’ll ever be able to have anal sex.Please help

November 25th, 2009 by Admin | Filed under Lubes / Lubricants FAQ.
blueyes_wright83 asked:


Me and my boyfriend have played around with anal sex. Using few fingers at first lots of lube and going really slow. Nothing seems to work. Not to mention his penis is huge…it touches his belly button and my thumb and index finger can’t touch when i wrap them around it. Is he just to big and i should give it up or is there something else out there that we haven’t tried …..Needing help.

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8 Responses to “My boyfriends penis is so big and I’m not sure if we’ll ever be able to have anal sex.Please help”

  1. seth o says:

    just start by putting fingers in one at a time then use a lot of lube and put hiw member inyour anus

  2. gilongsky says:

    There are things that are not worth taking the risk for. Just imagine yourself having your butt crack being stitched in the surgery ward and the physician asking you the cause, I wouldn’t like to be in your shoes.

  3. Brent says:

    My brother, who is about the same size as me, told me once that there’s no such thing as being too big for anal sex. I’m not sure I agree. My penis is 5.5 inches around, and my wife is not able to take it in her anus. I have had anal sex with other women, however, who could take it.

    So, it’s probably possible, but it will take some time. You’d have to spend time with him probing you with his fingers and maybe a dildo. There is also a lubricant called Anal-eze, which helps desensitize the area so you can relax more.

    It’s really all about getting your sphincter to open up wide enough to accommodate him. If you really want to please him in this way, then you need to practice, probe and relax. It could take an hour of playing like that until you’re able to take his penis in anally.

    If he can get 2-3 inches in, then your close. If you can relax while he pushes hard, it will hurt for awhile. But as your sphincter gets used to having his penis there, it will start to relax and the pain should subside.

    You might find that you like it a lot at that point.

    Good luck.

  4. eentweedrievier2007 says:

    The anus can stretch very widely, if trained over time. Part of it is psychological. Remember, a bowel movement is roughly the width of a penis, and it exits the anus regularly and without pain.

  5. Gastounet says:

    Take your time, plenty of time, lubricate, lubricate, lubricate again, relax, practive with dildos of various size and …. Enjoy….

  6. jokerman says:

    start off pushing a coke bottle up then he should be able to follow

  7. Eco student says:

    but there’s poo in there… POO!

  8. djrollerboy says:

    anal sex is not the best sex to have actuall it kills the potective layer on your anus and you will have leakage problems in the future.

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