How can I make her stop using sex toys?
February 6th, 2009 by Admin | Filed under Sex Toys General FAQ.
Purple Sunset asked:
I keep telling my wife, that I will not allow her to use vibrators but when I throw them away, she disobeys me and buys a new one. I have medical knowledge and I know for a fact that vibrators can kill the nerve endings of the clitoris, but she won’t obey my advice.
I keep telling my wife, that I will not allow her to use vibrators but when I throw them away, she disobeys me and buys a new one. I have medical knowledge and I know for a fact that vibrators can kill the nerve endings of the clitoris, but she won’t obey my advice.
She said she wants more, but she should be satisfied with what I give her. I have a better knowledge than most people about sex and the human body, so she should be satisfied with me alone.
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that is not a bad thing actually…..you should join in with a toy.
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you just do not do it for her so she needs to satisfy herself
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ew
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Maybe you have a needle dick and do not know how to satisfy her….just a thought. Or on the other hand she may just like vibrators alot.
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Get over yourself…and obvious she’s NOT satisfied with you alone.
Congratulations about your vast sex and medical knowledge…obviously not making you a better lover!
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does she make you stop masturbating? if she does then i would understand but if she doesnt mind you masturbating, u shudnt care if she uses sex toys
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Your wife is an individual. You can’t tell her what to do. If she wants to use a vibrator she has every right to do so. I’m sure if they were harmful they would not be sold, so don’t worry.
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You can never satisfy her like the vibrator does because when you’re engaged in sexual contact with her, you’re going to want to get off. What if you were to offer her your clitoral services whenever she wants without expecting anything in return? Or do you have a problem with her getting off manually on her own?
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well you cant blame her. sometimes if you guys arent in the mood they’re ok. do you think you satisfy her enough? maybe you should try harder.
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You have problems pal. Your wife DISOBEYS you and wont OBEY you. Do you own her?
Creep.
Fact is she’s probably bored of you and when she’s using her sex toys she’s thinking about someone else.
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try giving her more of what she wants that way she will stop using the toys and appreciate you more
good luck
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If you have that much knowledge about sex why is your wife spending all your money on vibrators?
Leave her alone, you’ve given her your warning…stop taking it so personally. Vibrators just do things that people can’t.
Only SHE can determine whether or not she’s satisfied. How dare you think otherwise.
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Could you explain more on how they are bad for you? and honestly i just think you are jealous. I don’t use them myself, they kinda hurt. the real thing is always better. But please tell me more on how they are bad and kill the nerve ending?
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Your not making her satisfied. Try different positions or some other partners.
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it would help if you didnt treat her as if shes a child who has 2 obey you,you should join in +help her you mite enjoy it+she definatly would.
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I feel like shooting people like you. It’s HER life and HER clitoris. You have no right to command her to do anything. You can ask her to stop. If she chooses to continue, you have to respect her decision.
And you’re absolutely full of yourself aren’t you? I’ll have you know that I ALONE am the god of sex. You are nothing compared to me when it comes to pleasing women. Send your wife my way. I’ll make sure she never uses a vibrator again. Promise.
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Sorry Doc, but your wrong on this one. Why would you do that? You aren’t giving her what she needs or she wouldn’t have them. Why don’t you try and participate. You, her, and some toys! E-mail me and I will give you some ideas. You just aren’t comfortable with your self yet.
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Well, you may have good medical knowledge about some things, but you are wrong on one point. Vibration does not kill nerve endings. It can desensitize an area. The nerves become less responsive over time or with prolonged use. Nerve death would take a very long time. I mean years of prolonged use.
The idea that she should be satisfied with what you give her is antiquated. You two should communicate. If she can’t come from you using your mouth, hands, or other physical attributes there is probably a reason.
Does she use these toys in your presence?
If she doesn’t, then is that because you are threatened.
If she doesn’t, then is that because she is self conscious?
Work with her.
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Evidently, you ain’t floatin her boat.
Either get with the program, or let her have her toys. Or would you rather she mount the pool dude?
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Well you must not know everything or you would be able to satisfy your wife. Toys are fun. Just something that a man will not be able to understand. Leave her alone and let her have her fun.
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Part of the thrill for your spouse is that she knows that you don’t want her to use the vibrator. Tell her instead that you fully support her use of the vibrator; and maybe even get her a special one with enhanced features for her pleasure for her birthday or such. If you make it all less taboo for her, eventually she will tire of doing something that she thinks no longer gets your goat.
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Just because you “know” everything about something doesn’t mean you can put it in practice.
Are you satisfied with what she gives you or you do get in a bit more action if she’s not around?
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It is your wife’s body she does not need to “obey” you, especially when it comes to her sexuality. I love my husband and I’m fully satisfied with him alone but at times I want more. It is ALWAYS better when you do it alone, because you know exactly what you want when you want it. I guess I would suggest you bringing it up to her as something your are uncomforable with.. but as I see it.. you need to GET OVER IT!
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your knowledge about sex isn’t helping you in the bed if she is using toys you are not doing your job right
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If you know it all about sex then why is your wife using sex toys.
Maybe shes hinting something
Liven up your sex life and show her that you can be a million times better that a toy.
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if u were my man i would whoop your as*!
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I respectfully submit that you are a looney.
You are off base on so many levels I cannot even begin to address them.
But possibly the most ridiculous is the concept that you have a “better knowledge”.
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I did not know about the nerve ending stuff and I respect your knowledge. What I do know is that a prolonged used of vibrators will cause her as she walks in her neighborhood to open and close garage doors. Too much battery cells have energized her.
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My ex husband was the same way, I have a very high sex drive and liked to use vibrators, but he told me not to as he thought such frequent orgasms made the ones with him less intense. I obeyed him. Maybe I am more “old school” than most women as I respected him *rolls eyes*
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If you know so much about sex, then you should be cluing in that you obviously aren’t satisfying her.
And what is with your question? “I will not allow her…”, “won’t obey my advice…”, “should be satisfied with me alone…”. Get over yourself. She isn’t something to be owned or trained.
It sounds like she’s told you that she wants more. Why don’t you listen to her? If you’re not going to give her more, she’s going to look elsewhere for it.
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it might be because you talk to her like a pet she disobeys you and she should obey you. That is a turn off for a woman maybe you should treat her with respect and she will be more satisfied with you or maybe you;re just not what she needs
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OBEY? What planet are you on? OBEY your knowledge is not knowledge its stupidity. Go OBEY your crap and flush yourself.
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ever think it could be because your ORDERING her to do it?? Why not just ask her instead of “not allowing her” and having her “disobey” you. Stop being so demanding.
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pour tabasco sauce on them
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I wrote the one above this on my friends account. Seriously dude pour tabasco sauce on them and just lay em back down where ever you found them. Thats a way to get kids to stop putting their thumbs in their mouths. She’s basically putting a “thumb” in her “mouth” so I bet itll work
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You know, sex toys are not bad for your health as long as you used it properly. You cannot stop her for using vibrators or other sex toy gadgets because women needs more pleasure, that’s why they are not satisfied on sexual intercourse and try to do something more exiting as well.