Are SEX TOYS a no-no in bed? How do I ask him to play with me?Guys encouraged women also welcome to answer?

January 29th, 2009 by Admin | Filed under Sex Toys General FAQ.
confused asked:


I love to play with sex toys during sex every once in a while. I am not sure if this is a normal thing to do or not. How do I bring it up to someone I have never slept with but I want to know how willing he is to please? Do you guys like to watch?

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12 Responses to “Are SEX TOYS a no-no in bed? How do I ask him to play with me?Guys encouraged women also welcome to answer?”

  1. Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions says:

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    sounds good to me… that is really hot…

    watching as she enjoys herself.. :D

  2. xBANGx says:

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    watching could be fun, but only for a little bit..after awhile it will start to be a tease.

  3. steve s says:

    Kansieo.com

    its very normal just ask him. and yes its very nice to watch a girl play with herself.

  4. YELLOW PINKY =) says:

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    well my dear Friend if you tell you new BF that you love to use sex toys and ask if he wants to watch ..i can guarantee that he will want to marry you with months of meet =)

  5. theaterchick18 says:

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    You should talk to him about it. Guys are all different. Most will let you as long as the toy doesnt replace them pleasuring you

  6. Nakahara <3 says:

    Create a video blog…instantly.

    Hmmm..
    I’m a girl. (bi)
    Definitely ask him!
    I mean, who wouldn’t want to?

  7. ihatepenndot says:

    Kansieo.com

    Shoot, yeah, I’ll watch, and even help mine play if she lets me. Just ask, if he’s too prudish for that, what happens when you pull the deeper fantasies out later?
    Guys are flexible, mostly, this coming from a guy.
    I like to watch my woman get off, whatever we do to get her there that isn’t painful, or degrading, is fine with me. Most guys will feel pretty adventurous, if given the chance to be.
    PEACE

  8. beachmichelle99 says:

    Create a video blog

    When my boyfriend asked me if I liked to do oral sex – I asked him what he thought about toys. It was a YES on both parts. He was such a happy camper!!!

    You can just ask it as a casual conversation without giving your position on the issue.

    I think only an off kilter dude would have an issue with a toy.

  9. Smiles_x says:

    Kansieo.com

    I think the guy will love you for that! Just ask him, guaranteed he will say yes.

  10. Thanos1321 says:

    Create a video blog…instantly.

    It isn’t a bad thing, but maybe be careful about how you ask him…you don’t want him to think that you prefer the toys to the real thing, although if you do, you could always try showing him what you like and how you like it done.

    Good luck!

  11. Helen C says:

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