What kind of Dildo should I use or buy? (SERIOUS ANSWER PLZ)?

8 Responses to “What kind of Dildo should I use or buy? (SERIOUS ANSWER PLZ)?”

1. hkjoel95 says:

   February 24, 2009 at 11:49 am

   hmm i say u want a 15 cm dildo and it got to be purple because tat fancy hmm and about the thickness hmm that u hav to find tAT OUT 4 URSELF
2. HarryMay says:

   February 27, 2009 at 8:38 am

   you should choose thickness based on your preference…when you are with a guy how thick do you like them? try to match it up that way…
   colour is simply a matter of what colour you like…you can get floral ones or glow in the dark ones….

   how often you use it would depend on how much free time you have…
3. Jersey Girl says:

   March 2, 2009 at 8:02 pm

   >snort<

   “SERIOUS ANSWERS PLZ”. honey, it’s 4:18 am, there are NO serious answers on here at this time. don’t share your personal info on here. we don’t care how you get yourself off…

   OMG, she got a serious answer…
4. chele s says:

   March 4, 2009 at 11:11 pm

   start at average which is 5 inches long, and then can work up if you want, widths kind of vary, it will proportionate.
   and as far as color try pink, purple, green, not flesh colored or you may find yourself comparing once you do go to the real thing. tabu toys is a nice web site and passionparties.com is good too. –c
   (at first do it as often as you want, watch for signs of exhaustion———-dead batteries. just kidding)
   have fun
5. Brandy says:

   March 6, 2009 at 5:12 pm

   Get Jenna’s Beaver it has multi speed with Vibrating Clit.
   Only problem that it is expensive.
6. kalseeyumm says:

   March 6, 2009 at 6:22 pm

   You may want to skip the dildo and just get an Hitchi Magic Wand. My wife loves her’s. Of all of our toys (we have a large suite case full), it is the only one she has ever dreamt about.
7. cando_86 says:

   March 9, 2009 at 6:31 pm

   In terms of color, well, get one that is aesthetically pleasing to you. If you want something that looks like the real thing, by all means go for flesh-colored. But you don’t have to; there are some gorgeous dildos of all colors of the rainbow out there, and pick something that’s pretty to you.

   As for size, length, and girth (thickness), well, you want something that’s comfortable. The best way to figure this out is to get out a cucumber. Grab the vegetable peeler and peel that thing down and then try it out (with a condom on, of course). Keep on peeling until you get to a size and thickness that feels good for you, and then measure it with a tape measure, write it down, and take it with you when you go in, along with the tape measure, to find one that’s comparable.

   You can use a dildo pretty much as often as you want. Of course, if you’re using it constantly, it’ll probably suffer some wear-and-tear, but good-quality ones last quite a long time. As for wanting “the real one”, well, that’s all up to you. For some women, a dildo just isn’t a good substitute; for others, they could care less about the real thing- just give ‘em a good dildo! And for still more, it’s less about dildo vs. penis as it is about sex toy vs. a real, living, breathing, talking sexual partner. You know?

   Remember, when it comes to dildos, there are so many aspects you can consider, far more than just size, color, and thickness. You should choose your dildo based on the following criteria:

   1) Size (length and girth)
   2) Intended use (does it come with a handle for easy manuevering during masturbation, or a flanged base that is more in line with a dildo for a strap-on harness?)
   3) Aesthetics (is it meant to look like the real thing, complete with fleshy color, head, testicles, and veins? or is it some futuristic arty explosion of color and ingenuous shape that doesn’t resemble a penis at all?)
   4) Design (does it have a curve to hit your G-spot or is it straight? Is it smooth or does it come with bumps and ripples and ridges to massage your vaginal walls? Is it tapered to let you ease it in gently, or the same size the entire way for more intensity?)
   5) Material (do you want something that feels like real skin? Glass? Something flexible, or something more firm? A material you can throw in the dishwasher to clean up with no problems? Something that is odorless?)
   6) Toxicity (some toys are, indeed, toxic, and have phthalates in them, which are not good for you at all. Do you want that?)
   7) Waterproof-ness (do you want a toy you can use in the bath-tub without having to worry?) Adjustments (Do you want a dildo that you can add a vibrating bullet to to turn it into a vibrator, or just a dildo that is meant for solely penetration?)
   9) Brand name/quality (do you just want something you’re going to use every now and then, and that doesn’t have to be that great, or are you making a big investment in something you’ll use on a regular basis and want the best from?)
   10) Price (of course)

   Research your dildos- there are a lot of good ones out there, and you can find the perfect one for you with some searches. This guide to buying dildos might help:

   Hope that helps and good luck!
8. Kitty says:

   March 12, 2009 at 9:05 am

   This site has some good dildos at good prices, you might want to check them out!