If your married, is it wrong to just want to go play with your vibrator alone and not tell the husband?

February 7th, 2009 by Admin | Filed under Vibrators FAQ.
Anastasia Beverhousen asked:


As? therefore, you '? re ready to go, but to forget the husband to grab the rabbit and hide in a bedroom to someone, and to make playing video games?

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34 Responses to “If your married, is it wrong to just want to go play with your vibrator alone and not tell the husband?”

  1. Nichole L says:

    Not wrong if he can’t give you what you need when you need it.

  2. hahaha says:

    I think that is fine..sometimes, you gotta have a little alone time now and again.

  3. ricksliss says:

    Nothing wrong woth that, as long as you are still having sex with him, as well.

  4. Deron S says:

    THAT IS A GREAT IDEA if more wifes were like you than men would have perma smiles glued the their faces

  5. princesshousewife says:

    Nope. Not a thing wrong with that!

  6. Arcadia says:

    No just go for it, I was married to a video game addict, if you need to satisfy your urge and he is too busy playing video games then go take care of business!

  7. Danny says:

    No nothing wrong with that at all keeping a secret is ever more exciting gives room for fantasies, i wouldn’t be mad at all.

  8. tm_tech32 says:

    Is it wrong…. no probably not.

    I guess I would want to know, is this because he isn’t interested and would rather play video games? Or because you would rather not be with him?

  9. moonlite1us says:

    Nothing wrong with that my dear. If he can’t or won’t deliver than by all means take matters into your own hands ;-) or mine

  10. 12w w says:

    spending private time is actually healthy

  11. Ozymandius says:

    Nothing wrong with some ‘alone time’…

    Such things should be encouraged.

    Let him play his games, and you can play yours…

    As long as your not thinking about someone else, or doing it WITH someone else… nothing wrong with it at all.

  12. tha gurl says:

    I think its wrong if he does please you. If you are not getting what you need from him then you two need to talk instead of you running away to handle it yourself. marriage is a partnership and there needs to be open communication. You need to tell your husband whether he is doing something wrong or not. Because the vibrator may lead to another man. Give your husband a chance to learn how to make you happy.

  13. Katie says:

    hey go play with another man if you want ^_^

  14. funlovin_gal75 says:

    Gosh No if you wanna get off who says the husband needs to be there im sure everytime he wacks off you arent there. Go have fun then you can tease him with it later hehe!

  15. cheetah7 says:

    LOL, no there’s nothing wrong with that. I lot of females do that, including myself.

  16. BLSFAN44 says:

    Not wrong….but you should let him watch

  17. johnb693 says:

    Seems he has a problem, if he’s willing to play video games, rather than please his wife.
    So why not, service yourself, seems a pity though.Ever thought of asking him, if he’d care to watch you do it?
    Just a thought. For me, it’d be better than any video game.

  18. physandchemteach says:

    Sounds OK to me. Does he have to tell you when he takes care of himself? I doubt it. Sometimes a woman just needs to be alone with her toy.

  19. Amy M says:

    well a married man shouldn’t still be so immature that video games is his top priority. As far as telling you before she masterbates it’s really none of your business unless she chooses to share the privacy of that with you. Do you tell her everytime you jerk it in the shower?

  20. Brutal honesty is best says:

    Hell no grab the toy and go for it! it might even be fun for him to watch, who knows use it on a regular basis and maybe your husband will learn something.

    He may enjoy the vibrator as well, plug his a s s for a change.

  21. ***Starry***Nite*** says:

    Well since you are married and you have the real thing at your finger tips why would you want to use your vibrator?!?!?
    Unless your husband is that bad then i guess its OK………..
    He would probably be jealous and think that he was being neglected so, best not to tell him. I just don’t understand why you would not want to have your husband join you?????????????

  22. doesitmatter says:

    Works for me. The way I see it if my b.f can’t get the job right I can take care of that. And if he is like mine then you are probably about ready to dump is ass any way cause not only does he suck in bed, but he cares more about his video games!

  23. Meghanita says:

    nope. nothing wrong with a little self love.. sometimes, an orgasm from a vibrator is much more intense than from sex with a partner.
    a few ideas though:

    1. try using your vibrator during sex with your husband
    2. communicate with the hubby so he knows how to get you off.. so maybe you will want to have sex more with him vs. the vibrator…
    3. try some toys, videos, new lingerie or role playing to spice things up a bit…

    good luck.. and don’t worry, a lil self love never hurt anyone!!

  24. jennifer_b1973 says:

    I think it is perfectly normal to want some one on one time every now and again. I have been married for 12 years and have times that I would rather masturbate than have sex. I am sure you love your husband and enjoy sex, but sometimes it is just easier to get yourself off.

  25. ManOfTheHour says:

    Nothing wrong with it. Do you think he calls you every time he needs to squeeze one off. Go enjoy yourself. Also, if he catches you, it will be exciting for him.

  26. Charisma C says:

    God I hope not!!!! Cause if it is my 10 year marriage is in trouble. It helps thought that hes in the military hes gone for awhile and when he comes back I’m usually ready by then.

  27. sinned says:

    have fun babe-got my permission

  28. six7foru says:

    I say GO FOR IT, your just pleasing yourself and not hurting anyone by doing so. Go for it !

  29. kukkeeme says:

    go for it! he’s probably jerking in the shower! don’t feel guilty have fun and enjoy. The best way to give to a healthy sexual relationship is to know your own body and what you like and how he can touch you for the best results.

  30. sweetl8dyt24 says:

    No it’s not wrong on any level. Vibrators are made with women in mind, your husband is human he can only do so much. Masturbation is also very healthy, an orgasm can stimulate all sorts of things in your body. Enjoy your vibrator and life, I do.

  31. JC says:

    if he is not taking care of the home front, you are still entitled to a little pleasure. He needs to take care of business. I cannot imagine taking video games over a woman’s body.
    Why not surprise him sometime and crank that baby up right in front of him while he is doing his video games. Then see what he wants to play with.

  32. ohiokate says:

    Nothing wrong with it at all! There’s more than one way to tease the kitty, you know.

    Now, if you find yourself preferring your ‘little friend’ over your husband, then you’ve got yourself a situation. But then, that’s pretty easily remedied, just let him use it on you. Fun for everyone!

  33. cmyl77 says:

    god ur so lucky, my husband wont let me have a vibrator he says it would make him feel insecure but to answer ur question no i dont think theres nothing wrong with that good luck

  34. ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond says:

    Why don’t you involve him?? Put the vibrator in his line of vision and see what kind of reaction you get. Or…..ask him if it would make him feel insecure if you have fun time all by yourself sometimes. I doubt he will find anything wrong about it!

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