Comments on: Why would a husband feel threatened by sex toys?

By: Layla

Layla — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 20:48:11 +0000

nah…guys just have issues with sex toys, they feel threatened. And their egos wont allow them. it takes a very confident man to accept them at face value. Like this man i know, nothing can deter him,he enjoys any different thing. and it makes me like him even more, becoz he is so confident, his Dikc isnt even THAT big….

By: florida

florida — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 07:23:04 +0000

I think it could be part of it. My wife recently went to a sex party and brought home a couple of toys. It made me feel a little insecure, becuase I looked at it from the point of view that maybe I was not satisfing her. When a man compares himself to a battery operated machine, we lose. However, I was looking at it from the wrong perspective. THe toys were not to replace me, but a device that we both could use together, and we have used it before during sex and it made me feel better as to why she bought them. Plus, every now and then if the man happens to be tired or not in the mood, its better for the relationship if his wife can pleasure herself instead of going out-of-home to get it. It might help if you use the toys with him and remind him that pleasuring yourself is something we have all done, and its not a competition. Hope this helps.

By: Jamaican Beauty

Jamaican Beauty — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 11:27:34 +0000

he just thinks that the reason you did what you did is because he was not satisfying you properly and now the toys are there it is starting over again just talk to him and let him know that he is wrong these things just brings fun to sex

By: ash

ash — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 10:25:36 +0000

he feels your getting more satisfaction from them —than from him.

By: beentheredonethat

beentheredonethat — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:47:33 +0000

No are you serious. Just because you cheated on him and screwed someone else why would he think that he is unable to please you and worry that you need machinery to get the job done.

By: Harry P Ness

Harry P Ness — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 12:07:52 +0000

Some guys don’t like the thought of something else doing his woman. I my self enjoy helping out or watching. It is just the guy.

By: s98310

s98310 — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 05:13:57 +0000

Could be…could not be. It might his upbringing, the way he learned about sex, or a feeling that you are sending him a message about being inadequate.
Talk with him. Decide how important they are to you. And then negotiate. 3 steps.

By: myportlandblue

myportlandblue — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:42:48 +0000

Maybe he is kind of shy about it and maybe he grew up in a sheltered environment. Most of those sex toys look pretty weird to me. Maybe start out gently? Save the 10 inch black dildos for later?

By: myke4urnot

myke4urnot — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 03:00:28 +0000

i think hes insecure,need some help using the toys?