My SeeX Toys VS Husban?

October 7th, 2009 by Admin | Filed under Sex Toys General FAQ.
Leo asked:


My husband doesn’t feel having sex ‘cause he was taking steroids. I talked to him about so he stopped and got some pills to increase his sex drive. After less than 1 week he is back on taking steroids and has no sex drive and even I get naked if he tries he can’t last no more than 1min. We only being married 2yrs and have sex once month sometimes not at all. I’m very attractive 22 he is 31. So I decided to buy sex toys. And he found out about it and thourhg them out. Please help. He is always complaing about him getting older and he wants to look perfect he goes to gym everyday. But why he doesn’t’ care about the most important thing making love to me.
Answer man he doesn’t even have muscle that is the other thing.

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17 Responses to “My SeeX Toys VS Husban?”

  1. Sweetpea says:

    buy some more toys and hide them, if he is more concerned with taking steroids than pleasing his wife than you should just please yourself and cant he work out without using steriods?

  2. Anthony F says:

    Sounds crazy. I think he should be happy that you are doing that instead of looking outside. I think you should have discussed you buying them with him first though.

  3. Jenny says:

    Well, that’s actually an erectile dysfunction. Maybe, he has a disease that cause him impotent. Consult your doctor to know what really is the problem.

  4. Answer Man says:

    That is why you shouldn’t date muscle men. Older guys with a bit of a belly are much better lovers.

  5. Paul D says:

    Because his sexdrive is cooked and you in for one long dry spell .At least i respect for being loyal by getting sex toys.If he cant cant perform show him the highway.you are still young to be deprived of this classic thing called sex.

  6. janie says:

    Steroids can really harm your health and that can cause you from impotency, that’s why your husbands sex drive decreases…

  7. Donnie H says:

    is a med problem for steroids, my breathing causes me be on them. my wife i am sure is just like you ,bless both of you. get toys out.

  8. COLLEEN K says:

    Sex toys make some men feel that they are not good enough for you. I have some toys and my husband would be hurt if I used them alone. He would rather be there in the action. Now steroids does make you loose your sex drive and that is hard. I couldnt deal with not making love to my husband. Its a hard choice but you should sit down and talk to him that you have needs too! thats sounds crazy but you havent been married that long for this to happen… Talk to him and see what happens. He cant be on steriods forever.

  9. B'sbabygurl says:

    sit down n talk to him bout love n stuff n u bought those cuz u need pleasure n u love him n ur not gonna go screw some random guy n then ask him if he loves u n if its yes ask y he doesnt wanna make love you??? if this doesnt change son u might have to say good by cuz yhe obviesly dont care about u as much as u care about him….

  10. perrygreenwich says:

    It’s not your fault that he’s not paying attention to you. I can understand if he did satisfy you and you “still” are using toys. I wouldn’t throw them out. To be honest, I have bought my wife numerous toys over the years and I wish she use them. Lately, she hasn’t been interested in sex.
    If you’d like to talk further, please email me at

    Thanks!!

  11. Owen E says:

    Tell him to stop using the steroids or your gone. For one they increase chance of heart disease, they shrink the testicles he will have raisins soon enough and also I believe has been linked to erectile dysfunction. Of copurse they are alkos linked to strokes and blod clots. Really he is putting his health at huge risk many supplements he can use rather then steroids. He should be concerned about pleasuring you instead of his physique.

  12. midnightrambler says:

    Sounds to me as if the only thing home here is the stove and that’s out! Steroids is a serious problem young lady. Get him help first before complications set in unless they have already started. Wake up before the damage is beyond repair.

  13. RASKDC says:

    WOW! you have a real problem! i know you love your husband, but does he love you more than steroids. it’s good to have a sexual desires, and it seems he’s not fulfilling your needs. counseling may be a good idea before this gets out of hand including infidelity

  14. BIG .A says:

    have an affair,and yes i am offering

  15. Robert T says:

    Sorry to hear that.

    You need to talk to him and tell him his neglect of you and your marriage is not acceptable.
    Tell him the time he spends working on his own looks is out of balance and causing a big problem in the marriage, and will eventually destroy the marriage.

    In the end, you can’t change someone or force them to do something they don’t want to do. What you CAN do, is tell them the consequences of their action, or in-action. The way he responds when you tell him, will tell you if it is time to move on and find a man who knows how to take care of a woman.

  16. michelle says:

    Tell him if he doesn’t want to come home to a neurotic, crazed wife, he better be okay with you having some of your toys around. Explain to him that women who smile often and are the “happy-go-lucky” kind, are the ones that are either having good sex or have good toys to play with at home.

  17. Deja Vu! says:

    his impotentcy is causing you a lot of frustration, get another
    toy and keep it a secret, when he goes to work out, you work out to, that, way both of you are to tired for sex…
    …enjoy!

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